Summer Flings…Are They Worth It?

Let me state for the record that I have no concrete right or wrong answer to this question. Both of my opinions are going to be here, pros and cons. The rest, the hard part of course, is left up to you.

Before we begin, here is my definition of a, ‘summer fling’ so no one gets confused. A summer fling is a romantic friendship of sorts which occurs during the summer, obviously. They can include anything from just flirting and kissing to going farther with that person than you have with anyone else.

Here are some requirements:

1) You MUST actually like the person and find them attractive…otherwise it would be called torture.

2) You should feel as if you are on a cloud, preferably cloud seven, but if another suites you more, so be it.

3) It is helpful if said summer flinger is not someone you see regularly…exotic per say.

4) Last, but not least, in a heart breaking end…the fling must be flung by the end of summer.

5) You should not be upset by number four because this is the nature of such summer flings.

Let’s be little skeptics and start with the cons.

CONS of the summer fling:
-Number four obviously is number one here. It sucks that this little romance has to end.                                                                                              

-If this was during vacation, you may not see the fling for several years or ever again.                                                                                                    

-Your heart may get broken….HINT: move on. do not be sad it is over be happy it happened.                                                                                   

-If you truly liked the person you may feel as if you’ve fallen in love, but a relationship will not grow because it was a fling.

PROS of the summer fling:                                                                                                                                                                                                                             -Well for one it means your summer has been one of your best, with lasting memories created.                                                                                

-If you had a great bond together you have been flung but there might be yet potential for a friendship.                                                                

-If both of you agree, this may be repeated the following summer.                                                                                                                                            

-Um…you get to be on a cloud, and that’s a pretty spectacular feeling. (until you fall off but don’t worry about that)

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~ by alinarose17 on July 25, 2012.

2 Responses to “Summer Flings…Are They Worth It?”

  1. Something tells me this was written by an experienced ukrainian.. more likely than not, a hamster….. 😉

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